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Dad lets 3-month-old baby scream in his baby swing for 15 minutes without tending to him, gets angry at mom when she leaves shower to feed him: ‘He said I was ruining his plan for the night, and that I was taking over’ #Fun

Sometimes, babies cry for literally no reason. There are so many babies who cry uncontrollably for no discernable reason that the medical establishment coined the term “colic.” There’s a big difference between a baby who is genuinely colic and one who hasn’t had their needs tended to. The baby in this story is the latter. 

If a baby is crying, you can’t always tend to their needs immediately, like if you’re driving and they’re in the backseat. But if they’re sitting in their playpen, crib, or highchair and you don’t offer them food, a pacifier, or physical comfort, you’re not doing the bare minimum to solve their crying. A mom recently took to Reddit to share the argument she had with her husband. While she was in the shower, she heard her baby uncontrollably sobbing for 15 minutes, and when she got out to see what was wrong, things unraveled from there. 

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Mom makes 16-year-old daughter sleep in the same room as colic baby brother and get up with him during the night, grandma strongly disagrees: ‘I never made my girls take care of one another when they were younger’ #Fun

It’s so rotten to have to care for your younger siblings constantly. The fact that any of the Duggar girls grew up to have their own kids at all is nothing short of a miracle. They did more mothering before age 12 than most mothers do in their first couple of years of motherhood. I know in large families, a lot of chores can fall on kids, but expecting a kid under 18 to take care of a baby while the mom is doing God knows what else is wrong, no matter how you swing it. 

The mom in this story imposed one of the most unacceptable responsibilities on her teenage daughter that I can think of. She allowed her colic baby to sleep in her 16-year-old daughter’s bedroom and expected her to get up with him during the night. The logic is that she (the mother) needs her sleep.

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