
Obituary: Sister Carolyn Nicolai, a Franciscan Sister of Peace, 85 #Catholic – ![]()
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Friday, Jan. 2, at St. Pius X Parish in Tucson, Ariz., for Sister Carolyn Nicolai (formerly Sister John Vianney), a Franciscan Sister of Peace, who died on Dec. 14 after a brief time in hospice at The Center Nursing Facility in Tucson, also in Arizona. She was 85.
Sister Nicolai was born in 1940 in Teaneck, N.J., to Marie and C. W. Nicolai and had a sister, Marie, who later married Jim Wyble and had five children: Daniel, Kenneth (K.C.), Carolyn, Janet, and Mark. Sister Nicolai grew up in Ridgefield Park, Bogota, and Kinnelon, all in New Jersey. She graduated from Butler High School in 1958 and then attended Miller Secretarial School. Sister Nicolai was employed as a secretary in New York City until 1960.
That year, Sister Nicolai entered the Franciscan Sisters of Peace in Peekskill, N.Y. and began a life of service that spanned 65 years. She earned a bachelor’s degree in Spanish and education from Ladycliff College in Highland Falls, N.Y., and a master’s degree in religious education from St. Joseph’s Seminary in Yonkers, N.Y.
During her early years of ministry, Sister Nicolai taught in several Catholic elementary schools in New York and New Jersey. Though she loved teaching, she also felt called to minister to the elderly in the Kennedy Residence in Pompton Lakes, N.J., and Bethany Residence in Wayne, N.J. She was also a pastoral associate at St. Nicholas Parish in Passaic, N.J.
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In 1989, Sister Nicolai moved to Arizona. There, she was a pastoral associate at St. Joseph’s Parish in Winslow, then served the Yaqui and Tohono Oodham Tribes at St. Kateri Tekakwitha Parish in Tucson, and, for 20 years, became the diocesan director of Pastoral Ministry to Nursing Homes with Carmelite Father Angelo Mastria, starting in 1994. Sister Nicolai received the Employee of the Year Award from Catholic Community Services of South Arizona in 1996.
For more than 20 years, Sister Nicolai volunteered in prisons and later mentored women released from prison. After retiring from active ministry in 2015, she continued serving the elderly and mentoring the women she had come to love.
Sister Nicolai spent her final years at Atria Bell Court Gardens Senior Living, where she formed many friendships and ministered through prayer and presence. She loved people, animals, and music.
Sister Nicolai is survived by her nephews, Kenneth (K.C.) and Mark, her niece, Carolyn, several grand-nieces, many cousins, and her Franciscan of Peace community.
A Mass will be celebrated with Sister Nicolai’s Franciscan Sisters of Peace at a later date at Marian Woods in Hartsdale, N.Y. Interment will take place at St. Mary’s Cemetery in Yonkers, N.Y. immediately following the Mass.
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A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Friday, Jan. 2, at St. Pius X Parish in Tucson, Ariz., for Sister Carolyn Nicolai (formerly Sister John Vianney), a Franciscan Sister of Peace, who died on Dec. 14 after a brief time in hospice at The Center Nursing Facility in Tucson, also in Arizona. She was 85. Sister Nicolai was born in 1940 in Teaneck, N.J., to Marie and C. W. Nicolai and had a sister, Marie, who later married Jim Wyble and had five children: Daniel, Kenneth (K.C.), Carolyn, Janet, and Mark. Sister Nicolai grew up in Ridgefield Park,

















![Hope abounds at diocesan Closing Jubilee Mass in Paterson #Catholic - On Dec. 28, the Feast of the Holy Family, Bishop Kevin J. Sweeney closed Jubilee of Hope 2025 observances in the Paterson Diocese in New Jersey during a Mass he celebrated at the Cathedral of St. John the Baptist in Paterson, N.J., the mother church of the diocese. On behalf of the diocese’s 400,000 faithful, the bishop prayed that the graces God bestowed during the Jubilee year “transform us into tireless cultivators of the seeds of the Gospel as pilgrims of hope.”
That Sunday afternoon, the faithful came from all corners of the diocese to fill the cathedral, uniting in gratitude to God during the Jubilee Year of Hope Closing Mass, the final diocesan event in observance of the Jubilee Year, which the Universal Church is celebrating. Originally declared by the late Pope Francis, the Jubilee year was designated as a time for Catholics to have a personal encounter with Jesus and be renewed as Pilgrims of Hope.
The bishop was the principal celebrant and homilist of the liturgy, with many priests from the diocese concelebrating and deacons and seminarians assisting. At the Mass, the faithful had the opportunity to receive a Jubilee plenary indulgence, the complete remission of temporal punishment for forgiven sins for oneself or deceased loved ones. Pope Leo XIV, Pope Francis’ successor, will close the Jubilee for the Universal Church on Jan. 6 at St. Peter’s Basilica in Rome.
At the start of the Mass, Bishop Sweeney declared, “We rejoice and give thanks, together with Pope Leo and the whole Church, now, and come bring to a close this great Jubilee of Hope.”
“As a diocese, we have offered our praise and thanksgiving and supplications to our God, in union with those who are voiceless in the world —the sick, the aged, the prisoners, and the poor,” Bishop Sweeney said in his greeting. “Through the Jubilee indulgence, the Lord has caused a river of grace and blessing to flow. He has granted us all his hope and his peace. He has strengthened hands that are weak, made firm the feeble knees. He has said to each of us, ‘Take courage; do not be afraid,’” he said.
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After the Mass, Aura Monasterio of St. Paul Parish in Prospect Park, N.J., told BeaconNJ.org that the Jubilee inspired her to pray more often. She and her family pray before meals, before going to bed and waking, and in front of a shrine in their residence. Monasterio also attended a local Jubilee pilgrimage.
“I’m closer to God and more connected to the [Catholic] community,” said Monasterio, an immigrant from Guatemala and a catechist at St. Paul’s. “I cried at Christmas Mass this year. It felt more special. I feel God more in my heart and home.”
The Mass began with a short procession featuring representatives from many of the diocese’s 107 parishes, agencies, and communities, each carrying a banner for their parish or group. The Prayer of the Faithful was prayed in seven languages to highlight the diocese’s cultural diversity.
In his homily, Bishop Sweeney asked the faithful to recall memories of the Jubilee, such as receiving the plenary indulgence or attending any of the five local pilgrimages to designated churches in the diocese for the holy year. The diocese held 26 events to help the faithful experience deeper hope and unity as one Church and to receive God’s grace, including a pilgrimage to Rome and Assisi, Italy, led by Bishop Sweeney in the fall.
Looking ahead, Bishop Sweeney suggested local faithful take inspiration from Mary and Joseph of the Holy Family to “prayerfully listen and discern how the Holy Spirit is calling us to be this wonderful local church of our diocese of Paterson.”
With the words “Spes No Confundit” — Latin for “Hope does not disappoint” (Rom 5:5), the late Pope Francis declared a Jubilee Year of Hope for 2025 with a Bull of Indiction on May 9, 2024, the Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception. The pope rang in the holy year by opening the holy doors at St. Peter’s Basilica in Rome last Christmas Eve. Bishop Sweeney opened the holy year at the cathedral on Dec. 29 last year, the feast of the Holy Family.
During the closing Mass, Bishop Sweeney thanked Salesian Sister Theresa Lee, diocesan chancellor and delegate for religious, and Brian Honsberger, formerly of St. Paul Inside the Walls in Madison, N.J., who worked with seven committees to coordinate the diocese’s Jubilee observances. The bishop also thanked the clergy, religious, laity, parishes, schools, and diocesan agencies that helped with Jubilee events.
Again looking toward the future for the diocese, Bishop Sweeney said in his homily that Pope Leo might have given the Church some direction when he delivered his first address to the papal curia, Church leaders in Rome, on the Monday before Christmas. The pope asked them to reflect on two aspects of the Church: mission — the call to be “missionary disciples” and “witnesses to the Gospel”— and evangelization — to be a “joyful Church, welcoming to all and attentive to the poorest,” Bishop Sweeney said.
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![Rep. Tom Emmer credits his parents’ example in fostering Catholic faith - #Catholic -
U.S. House Majority Whip Rep. Tom Emmer, R-Minnesota, talks about his faith with Eric Rosales on “EWTN News Nightly” on Dec. 29, 2025. | Credit: “EWTN News Nightly”/Screenshot
Dec 30, 2025 / 08:00 am (CNA).
Republican Rep. Tom Emmer, U.S. House majority whip, said his Catholic faith was formed by his parents’ example at a young age and he encouraged Americans to reflect more on God in a culture filled with many distractions.Emmer, of Minnesota, spoke to “EWTN News Nightly” about the faith of his parents, including his father’s daily Mass attendance and his mother’s decision to gift her husband a rosary on their wedding day.“The example that they set, is, I believe, why I am who I am,” Emmer said.“I’m the son of Tom and Patsy Emmer who literally met in the sixth and seventh grade at Our Lady of Grace Catholic grade school in Edina, Minnesota,” he said. “[They] were married for 60-some years; they literally lived around the corner from each other, and they never moved more than about two or three miles from where they originally grew up.”Emmer attended a Catholic elementary school and high school. He said he sang in the church choir, saying he “was a soprano” as a child but can no longer reach the high notes.“When I try to do ‘and the rockets’ red glare,’ I can only say it. My voice doesn’t go there anymore,” Emmer said.The congressman also opened up about his sister Bridget’s death from breast cancer, saying it made him question God’s will. Yet, he said a conversation with her before her death helped bolster his faith and to stop being angry with God.Emmer said some older women told his sister that she was too young to have cancer and that he initially told her: “I kind of agree with them.” He said she responded by saying: “Would I love to live forever? Absolutely. But I’m not going to, and people who talk like that have not gotten every second out of every minute out of every hour of every day. I have lived a good life; if God comes and calls me today, so be it.”Emmer emphasized the importance of reflecting on God’s goodness in a world that has become filled with distractions.“Too many people, in this age of social media and all the other stuff — the world gets going so fast that they don’t take a minute to sit down and check out what the good Lord has created,” Emmer said.Legislative activityAccording to a 2025 report from the Pew Research Center, about 28% of Congress is Catholic. More than half of Catholic lawmakers in both the House and the Senate are Democrats.Emmer, the third-ranking House Republican, has consistently opposed abortion access during his 11 years in Congress, receiving an A+ rating from Susan B. Anthony Pro-Life America. He also has been critical of what he calls “radical gender ideology.”His stances have not aligned with Church teaching regarding his support for in vitro fertilization (IVF). When he ran for governor of Minnesota in 2010, Emmer opposed same-sex civil marriage. He later shifted his position and voted in favor of a law enacted in 2022 to require states to recognize same-sex civil marriages performed out of state. The Catholic Church does not recognize same-sex civil unions as marriage according to its doctrine and sacramental theology. Emmer has generally supported President Donald Trump’s deportation efforts. The U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB) approved a “special message” in November opposing “the indiscriminate mass deportation of people.”](https://unitedyam.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/rep-tom-emmer-credits-his-parents-example-in-fostering-catholic-faith-catholic-u-s-house-majority-whip-rep-tom-emmer-r-minnesota-talks-about-his-faith-with-eric-rosales-on.jpg)


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