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By all rights, Jalen Brunson, a star point guard for Villanova men’s basketball, could have played with swagger in the Wildcats’ final game of the NCAA national championships in 2018. He had just collected most of the major awards, including the Naismith College Player of the Year Award, the day before facing Michigan on April 2.
Instead, Brunson let his teammates shine, making it easier for them to score and passing the ball rather than taking shots himself. The Wildcats beat Michigan 79-62 for their second championship since 2016. Brunson scored only nine points — well below his 16-point season average.
Jay Wright, Villanova men’s basketball head coach for 21 seasons, illustrated the success and generosity of Brunson and other former players both on and off the court during his May 6 talk, “Winning and Losing as Disciples and as a Team.” He used their examples to foster teamwork as life lessons — what he called “attitude” — as he addressed parish leaders, coaches, young adults, and others seeking to live their faith with courage and purpose in the packed auditorium at St. Paul Inside the Walls in Madison, N.J.
“Jalen had the opportunity to be the star during that championship game. Instead, he showed his teammates he would stay true to the team’s core values. He said, ‘It’s not about me. It’s about the team,’” said Wright, who retired in 2022 as the William B. Finneran Endowed Head Coach of Villanova, a Catholic institution. Brunson is now a guard for the N.Y. Nicks in the NBA. “We want our leaders to be the most selfless and lead a team by example. Success isn’t just wins and losses. It’s about living together and treating each other well,” Wright said.
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Wright encouraged audience members to apply those core values — which he and his team summarized in the buzzword “attitude” — when building teams in their parishes or dioceses or revitalizing the Church. He said that people with “attitude” focus on teamwork, mission, dedication, work ethic, and supporting one another. Wright illustrated these principles with examples from games during his distinguished career.
“You will succeed if it’s God’s plan, but all you can control is your attitude and faith,” said Wright, who now gives motivational talks.
In addition to notching NCAA national championships in 2016 and 2018, Wright’s Villanova teams made four appearances in the NCAA Final Four.
Among his many accolades, he became the first man in BIG EAST history to be selected as the league’s Coach of the Year six times in 2018-19 and was named Associated Press men’s college basketball Coach of the Decade in 2020.
Wright and his wife, Patricia Reilly, received the St. Augustine Medal in 2017. Wright’s 2017 book, “Attitude,” was a New York Times bestseller.
Father Paddy O’Donovan, retired priest and former pastor in the Paterson Diocese, N.J., invited his friend Wright to speak at St. Paul’s. Father O’Donovan said publicly that Wright’s wisdom helped him understand leadership amid Church renewal and evangelization while leading parishes.
Wright “lives the reality” practicing the faith and evangelizing “in a very public way but also a deeply religious and personal way,” said Father O’Donovan, adding he is devoted to his wife and three children. “Jay is deeply committed to the life and mission of the Church,” Father O’Donovan said.
Villanova alumni filled St. Paul’s auditorium and posed many questions to Wright during a Q&A session after his talk. Bishop Kevin J. Sweeney, a sports fan, then offered a prayer.
“We have such a great team in the diocese. Tonight, as we give thanks to God for the witness [of Wright], we also pray that we have that attitude, which is Christ: to love as he loves,” Bishop Sweeney said.
Afterwards, Paul Pomykala, head coach of Passaic High School’s men’s basketball team and parishioner at Our Lady of Mount Carmel in Boonton, N.J., said Wright focused on the “bigger picture.”
“Success comes when people share a mission, form a bond, and play for the team, not their own glory. It’s also about what God has in store,” Pomykala said.
Noah Anderson, a third-grader at St. Patrick School in Chatham, N.J., who plays baseball and runs track, said Wright emphasized a “positive attitude.”
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By all rights, Jalen Brunson, a star point guard for Villanova men’s basketball, could have played with swagger in the Wildcats’ final game of the NCAA national championships in 2018. He had just collected most of the major awards, including the Naismith College Player of the Year Award, the day before facing Michigan on April 2.
Instead, Brunson let his teammates shine, making it easier for them to score and passing the ball rather than taking shots himself. The Wildcats beat Michigan 79-62 for their second championship since 2016. Brunson scored only nine points — well below his 16-point season average.
Jay Wright, Villanova men’s basketball head coach for 21 seasons, illustrated the success and generosity of Brunson and other former players both on and off the court during his May 6 talk, “Winning and Losing as Disciples and as a Team.” He used their examples to foster teamwork as life lessons — what he called “attitude” — as he addressed parish leaders, coaches, young adults, and others seeking to live their faith with courage and purpose in the packed auditorium at St. Paul Inside the Walls in Madison, N.J.
“Jalen had the opportunity to be the star during that championship game. Instead, he showed his teammates he would stay true to the team’s core values. He said, ‘It’s not about me. It’s about the team,’” said Wright, who retired in 2022 as the William B. Finneran Endowed Head Coach of Villanova, a Catholic institution. Brunson is now a guard for the N.Y. Nicks in the NBA. “We want our leaders to be the most selfless and lead a team by example. Success isn’t just wins and losses. It’s about living together and treating each other well,” Wright said.
Click here to subscribe to our weekly newsletter.
Wright encouraged audience members to apply those core values — which he and his team summarized in the buzzword “attitude” — when building teams in their parishes or dioceses or revitalizing the Church. He said that people with “attitude” focus on teamwork, mission, dedication, work ethic, and supporting one another. Wright illustrated these principles with examples from games during his distinguished career.
“You will succeed if it’s God’s plan, but all you can control is your attitude and faith,” said Wright, who now gives motivational talks.
In addition to notching NCAA national championships in 2016 and 2018, Wright’s Villanova teams made four appearances in the NCAA Final Four.
Among his many accolades, he became the first man in BIG EAST history to be selected as the league’s Coach of the Year six times in 2018-19 and was named Associated Press men’s college basketball Coach of the Decade in 2020.
Wright and his wife, Patricia Reilly, received the St. Augustine Medal in 2017. Wright’s 2017 book, “Attitude,” was a New York Times bestseller.
Father Paddy O’Donovan, retired priest and former pastor in the Paterson Diocese, N.J., invited his friend Wright to speak at St. Paul’s. Father O’Donovan said publicly that Wright’s wisdom helped him understand leadership amid Church renewal and evangelization while leading parishes.
Wright “lives the reality” practicing the faith and evangelizing “in a very public way but also a deeply religious and personal way,” said Father O’Donovan, adding he is devoted to his wife and three children. “Jay is deeply committed to the life and mission of the Church,” Father O’Donovan said.
Villanova alumni filled St. Paul’s auditorium and posed many questions to Wright during a Q&A session after his talk. Bishop Kevin J. Sweeney, a sports fan, then offered a prayer.
“We have such a great team in the diocese. Tonight, as we give thanks to God for the witness [of Wright], we also pray that we have that attitude, which is Christ: to love as he loves,” Bishop Sweeney said.
Afterwards, Paul Pomykala, head coach of Passaic High School’s men’s basketball team and parishioner at Our Lady of Mount Carmel in Boonton, N.J., said Wright focused on the “bigger picture.”
“Success comes when people share a mission, form a bond, and play for the team, not their own glory. It’s also about what God has in store,” Pomykala said.
Noah Anderson, a third-grader at St. Patrick School in Chatham, N.J., who plays baseball and runs track, said Wright emphasized a “positive attitude.”